present.

im present

thats it

absolutely unsure what the grass on the other side looks like

not quite sure if i want to

just present

moving at a decent pace

never absolute that the lane is right...

or is the lane left?

completely present; im sure im here

and hear often how gifting the present is

well, if thats the case...how come it feels like a nightmare? or daymare?

constant torment of lists undone, passions untangled and sh*t unhandled...

embellished with lavish parties, fancy drinks and daily routine

always on sale - someone always tryna sell something...and none of it can be returned

so i sit with my piles of presents (yes)

piles of presents (yeah)

piles of presents (maybe)

absolutely unsure; never absolute

and embellished.

possibly impossible?

single. black. female. 3 words that when put together almost seem like a death sentence. im over exaggerating, but am i really? going into the new year...no expectations on my part. but alot of women who fit in these 3 words...are really looking to be found...should that even be how it goes? should love FIND you or should you be actively engaging in the search process? plenty of questions...

a friend sent me this article. i laughed. idk if this woman, but i was thouroughly amused that he thought i could. am i though? hmmm...

Tracy McMillan: Why You're Not Married
how accurate is this for you? welp, i'd figured i'd share and let you decide if you fit the mold.

BE ENCOURAGED!

Article Link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tracy-mcmillan/why-youre-not-married_b_822088.html